Why I hate Back to School Night

Most of the time I don't mind being a single mother that much. I don't have to cook dinner if I don't want to--usually the kids don't really want anything anyway. I can cook when I want. I don't have to pick up my room and I don't have to make my bed. The times I feel most out of place and most alone are when I have to appear at a school function. By myself. This is a high-brow town where most mothers stay home and most men have Alpha jobs. The couples generally seem very happy even though I'm sure many aren't. It doesn't matter though because at least they're couples. They're both concerned about their kid, both concerned about school matters. And they're not alone.

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